Autobiography (Manoj Karagudri): September 2021

Wednesday, September 22, 2021

Father's friends

My father was an pleasure seeking person. He extracted pleasure from wine, liquor, meat, fish and women and men's company of his similar type.

He admired those men and women who praised him and admired and respected his wrong addictions and his personality.

He became happy with those who called him generous with respect. His friends who were similar like him used to praise him and he used to spend money on them. And he used to listen to his admirers who praised him. And his friends had an intention to extract benefit and their own selfish wicked advantage of liquor, meat and lavish addictions.

Many of his disciplined friends who did not have bad addictions took advantage of his weakness by making false promises. All together they took advantage of his intoxicated state of happy mind. Which was a disaster to me. As he listened to his business advisors misguidance.

He married his wife because she was good looking, beautiful and his relatives and parents arranged his marriage. His wife and my mother married him admiring his wealth and money, eventhough even though he had bad addictions and habits. She ignored his bad addictions and habits. Because her elder brother and her relatives already knew about my fathers bad addictions before marriage. But they also knew he was a wealthy man.

After marriage my mother used to quarrel and fight with him for his addictions. This made his mind even worse because of her behavior tactics. She made severe efforts to control his lifestyle which destroyed the relationship.

One of my father’s friends revealed about my father giving money to my mother after several years of my father’s death in 2021. Because my father had discussed about this to his friend before his death. According to my father's friend.

Before my father passed away he has taken loans from banks and other financial services, after that he has transferred all the money into my mother’s bank account. After that he passed away. My mother told me that she cannot give me any money. She told me earn my own living.

He was into real-estate building construction business with wrongly registered notary stamp paper documents as an power of attorney holder instead of owner of the purchased land.

After my father's death, banks, ( financial services ), seized, and overtook the hypothecated property of my father and recovered the money by selling it to others.

After my father’s death, my mother lied saying that she has not received any money from my father. She then started to prove to everyone that she is having no money. She then Started crying in front of her brother’s, and others, saying that she doesn’t have money and she started taking money from them. Her brother’s must know the truth so that they will not be fooled by her.

My mother tells lies and makes false drama. She hides the truth. She is dominating. She wants her son to be her slave. She wants to control her son, by not giving him money of his father. She wants to control by keeping the money. My mother is manipulative, not a truthful, not humble person. She becomes arrogant to achieve her selfish objectives.

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Sunday, September 5, 2021

Property inheritance

My mother always tried to mould my future in such a way which would benefit herself. I didn't understand in my childhood. but slowly understood as I grew up slowly. But I always tried to mould my future according to my own happiness. But I think, I am a good man. I have good intentions.

In my thirties. My mother tried to find me a girl which would be beneficial to herself. She did not give me financial strength to inherit ancestral property. She assumed that, she would lose her financial power by giving me her financial power, which was my ancestral wealth.

Her priority was to protect herself, quite natural. But it was an obstacle to my own future. But she neglected my future security. When ever she is enquired, questioned. She starts to cry, shead tears, shows her helplessness. She has no intention to help. Saying she has no power to help me. She puts conditions, that if I listen to her, then maybe my future will be better. Blackmailing.

My parents were afraid to give me financial power. They falsely assumed that it would be wrong to give me power. As they misunderstood that they would become my slaves. As they would lose their power to dominate, and to control me.

When I was studying in my college in 1995 my father had told me not to expect any financial help from him. He had told me that he would not provide me any financial help as he had also created his life on his own. Which was not true as he had inherited my grandfather’s house and land. He had told me that I must create my life without his support. He had told me that I had to be a self made man, to live my independent life with my own efforts. My father used to spend money on unnecessary things.

I remember my father had told me approximately in the year 2000, that he had decided to transfer all his family property and financials to his wife (my mother). At that time I had told him not to do so. As it would create a lack of management due to insufficient business experience of his wife (my mother). I thought my mother was not capable to handle business management and financial management, as she didn't have experience in business management.

I think he might have requested some close relatives to help assist his wife (my mother) after his demise. I am not sure about the identity of this person, but I am doubtful it might have been my mother’s brother (doctor LS Kulkarni), or might be the husband of my mother’s sister shamala (DRB Desai). I am not sure about it.

I have a doubtful wonder as to what would have happened, if he had given his wife cash currency, in the time of demonetization by the Indian government.

After my father’s demise, My mother’s brother (doctor LS Kulkarni) had told me in 2004 and in 2009 not to stay in city Hubli as it might hurt me due to my father’s financial loans. I don’t know why my mother’s brother (pharmacist prakash s kulkarni) also had told me the same in the year 2020. The same thing was also said by Engineer (DRB Desai) also in 2004 and in 2009.

My relative's told me that my sister has deposited money into my mother’s bank account. I feel this is a lie. I think if my sister wanted to help my mother financially then she could have paid for mother’s expenses monthly instead of depositing money into mother’s bank account. I think, not sure, that my mother inherited financial or property support from my father which was not revealed to me after his death. I think, to hide this my mother has taken my sister’s help.