My mother always tried to mould my future in such a way which would benefit herself. I didn't understand in my childhood. but slowly understood as I grew up slowly. But I always tried to mould my future according to my own happiness. But I think, I am a good man. I have good intentions.
In my thirties. My mother tried to find me a girl which would be beneficial to herself. She did not give me financial strength to inherit ancestral property. She assumed that, she would lose her financial power by giving me her financial power, which was my ancestral wealth.
Her priority was to protect herself, quite natural. But it was an obstacle to my own future. But she neglected my future security. When ever she is enquired, questioned. She starts to cry, shead tears, shows her helplessness. She has no intention to help. Saying she has no power to help me. She puts conditions, that if I listen to her, then maybe my future will be better. Blackmailing.
My parents were afraid to give me financial power. They falsely assumed that it would be wrong to give me power. As they misunderstood that they would become my slaves. As they would lose their power to dominate, and to control me.
When I was studying in my college in 1995 my father had told me not to expect any financial help from him. He had told me that he would not provide me any financial help as he had also created his life on his own. Which was not true as he had inherited my grandfather’s house and land. He had told me that I must create my life without his support. He had told me that I had to be a self made man, to live my independent life with my own efforts. My father used to spend money on unnecessary things.
I remember my father had told me approximately in the year 2000, that he had decided to transfer all his family property and financials to his wife (my mother). At that time I had told him not to do so. As it would create a lack of management due to insufficient business experience of his wife (my mother). I thought my mother was not capable to handle business management and financial management, as she didn't have experience in business management.
I think he might have requested some close relatives to help assist his wife (my mother) after his demise. I am not sure about the identity of this person, but I am doubtful it might have been my mother’s brother (doctor LS Kulkarni), or might be the husband of my mother’s sister shamala (DRB Desai). I am not sure about it.
I have a doubtful wonder as to what would have happened, if he had given his wife cash currency, in the time of demonetization by the Indian government.
After my father’s demise, My mother’s brother (doctor LS Kulkarni) had told me in 2004 and in 2009 not to stay in city Hubli as it might hurt me due to my father’s financial loans. I don’t know why my mother’s brother (pharmacist prakash s kulkarni) also had told me the same in the year 2020. The same thing was also said by Engineer (DRB Desai) also in 2004 and in 2009.
My relative's told me that my sister has deposited money into my mother’s bank account. I feel this is a lie. I think if my sister wanted to help my mother financially then she could have paid for mother’s expenses monthly instead of depositing money into mother’s bank account. I think, not sure, that my mother inherited financial or property support from my father which was not revealed to me after his death. I think, to hide this my mother has taken my sister’s help.
Father's friends.
Link to this article.
Ancestral property inheritance.
Main page.
My autobiography.
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